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Coming Home with Your Newborn: Essentials for the First Days

Writer: Dr. YuliDr. Yuli

Bringing your newborn home for the first time is an unforgettable experience—exciting, overwhelming, and full of new challenges. While the birthing center or the hospital provides some guidance, stepping into your home with a tiny, fragile baby can feel daunting. The good news? With the right preparation and a little patience, you’ll gain confidence in no time. We’ll go over the essentials for the first few days at home, what to expect, and common questions new parents ask.


Setting Up Your Home for a Newborn

Before your baby arrives, it’s helpful to have some key items ready. Here are the essentials:

1. Safe Sleep Space

Your baby should sleep on a firm mattress in a bassinet, crib, or bedside sleeper, with only a fitted sheet. Avoid blankets, pillows, bumpers, and stuffed animals. The ABC rule for safe sleep:

  • Alone

  • Back

  • Crib

2. Diapering Essentials

  • Newborn diapers (or cloth diapers)

  • Unscented wipes

  • Diaper rash cream

  • Changing pad or designated area

Expect to change 8-12 diapers per day—yes, really!

3. Feeding Supplies

If breastfeeding, have:

  • A comfortable nursing space

  • Breast pump (if pumping)

  • Nursing pads & nipple cream

If formula-feeding, have:

  • Formula recommended by your pediatrician

  • Bottles and sterilized nipples

  • Bottle warmer (optional)

Babies eat every 2-3 hours, so be ready for frequent feeds!

4. Clothing & Swaddles

Keep it simple with:

  • Soft onesies (with easy snap closures)

  • Socks & mittens (to prevent scratching)

  • Swaddle blankets for warmth and security

5. Hygiene & Bathing

  • Baby-safe soap & shampoo

  • Soft washcloths

  • A baby bathtub or sink insert

  • Baby brush & nail clippers

6. Health Essentials

  • Digital thermometer (for checking fevers)

  • Saline drops & bulb syringe (for stuffy noses)

  • Petroleum jelly & gauze (if caring for a circumcised baby)


What to Expect in the First Few Days

Newborns bring a lot of changes to your routine. Here’s what’s normal:

1. Frequent Feeding

Your baby will eat every 2-3 hours, around the clock. If breastfeeding, this helps establish your milk supply.  Learn to recognize your baby’s hunger cues. Whether breastfeeding or formula-feeding, every baby has unique needs. 

2. Lots of Diapers

Expect about 8-12 diapers a day after the first few days. By day 5, wet diapers should be pale yellow and bowel movements should be soft and yellowish. Breastfed babies may have fewer wet diapers in the first few days until the milk supply is established, while formula-fed babies tend to wet more diapers from the start.

3. Unpredictable Sleep Patterns

Newborns sleep 16-18 hours a day, but in short stretches. Many have their days and nights mixed up, which takes time to adjust.

4. Umbilical Cord Care

Keep the umbilical stump clean and dry—it will fall off on its own within 1-2 weeks.

5. Jaundice Monitoring

A mild yellowish tint to your baby’s skin is normal. If it worsens or your baby is overly sleepy and not eating well, call your pediatrician.


Common Questions from New Parents

1. How do I know if my baby is eating enough?

Your baby should have at least 6-8 wet diapers and seem satisfied after feedings. If you’re unsure, ask your pediatrician.

2. Should I wake my baby to feed?

Yes, in the first few weeks, newborns need to eat every 2-3 hours. If your baby is gaining weight well, your doctor may allow longer sleep stretches.

3. What’s the best way to soothe a fussy newborn?

Try the 5 S’s Method:

  1. Swaddling – Wrap snugly in a swaddle blanket.

  2. Side/Stomach Position – Hold your baby on their side or tummy (not for sleep).

  3. Shushing – White noise mimics the womb.

  4. Swinging – Gentle rocking or bouncing helps.

  5. Sucking – A pacifier or feeding can provide comfort.

4. When should I call the pediatrician?

Call your doctor if your baby:

  • Has a fever over 100.4°F (38°C)

  • Shows signs of dehydration (fewer than 6 wet diapers, dry mouth)

  • Has difficulty breathing or a bluish tint to lips or skin

  • Is inconsolably crying for long periods


Final Thoughts

Caring for Yourself

Parenting is a marathon, not a sprint. Make sure to eat well, drink plenty of water, and rest when possible. Don’t hesitate to lean on friends and family for support. If feelings of sadness or anxiety become overwhelming, reach out to a healthcare provider to discuss postpartum depression or anxiety.


Tools to Simplify Your Journey

To make this transition smoother, we recommend downloading the Nara App. It’s an excellent tool for tracking your baby’s sleep, feeding, diaper changes, pumping, and even your postpartum recovery.

Additionally, check out our Minimalist Newborn Checklist —a curated guide to the essentials you’ll need without the clutter.


You’ve Got This!

Remember, every parent’s journey is unique. While the first few weeks can feel like a whirlwind, they’re also filled with precious moments you’ll treasure forever. If you ever feel unsure or need guidance, don’t hesitate to reach out to your pediatrician.


If you found this guide helpful, share it with a fellow new parent!


Welcome to parenthood—you’ve got this! 💕





 
 
 

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